No Treadmarks on My Underpants! And Other Thoughts on Personal Resilience

By Libby Roderick, Roundtable Core Member

For me, resilience, on the personal level, involves the capacity to keep coming back, to keep engaging, to keep committing one’s life to love in all its forms, again and again, with an (at least relatively) open heart and undampened spirit, in spite of losses, blows, disappointments, missteps, misunderstandings, deprivations, and other hardships. Resilience means using defeat as a springboard for spiritual transformation (“Winning does not tempt that man. This is how he grows: by being defeated, decisively, by constantly greater forces.”  –Rilke). Resilience involves a fundamental connection and commitment to the inherent joy of being alive, the joy of life itself. And to the sovereignty of reality. (One of my favorites by a modern spiritual leader: “Reality always wins.  But only always.”) Continue reading